Classical Mechanics
Quantum tunneling allows us a fascinating glimpse at the workings of the subatomic world. We have learned in the last one hundred years or so that atoms aren't really the miniature solar systems that we all imagine them being—a relatively huge nucleus with tiny electrons swirling around it like planets. In fact, we can't really say much of anything about where electrons are or where they're going. It turns out that all we can really say is where they might be at a given time. Let's back up a little and try to illustrate this principle with an example.
Imagine a roller coaster on a track shaped like the black line pictured to the right. It's pretty easy to imagine that if you started on the left side where the red line intersects the slope that when they drop, the cars would easily roll over the middle hump and up the other side to the red-black intersection point on the right side (in fact, it would go to that point exactly if we neglect air resistance and friction). Even though the roller coaster dips pretty deeply just to the left of the center hump, it's not difficult to imagine that the cars would be going fast enough to get over the hump with speed to spare.
Now imagine that we start on the left side again, but this time at the point where the blue line intersects the track. Dropping from this height, we can see that the cars don't have enough energy to get up over the hump. Starting on the left side means never getting to the right side and vise-versa. We'd need some kind of chain (like the ones that they use in roller coasters to pull you up the first hill) to do enough work on the cars to get them over the hill. In other words, unless the roller coaster cars got energy from somewhere else (like being pushed at the beginning or dragged up the slope with a chain) they will never see the right side of the track.
Everything we just discussed comes from "classical" mechanics, which imagines that everything is solid and exists where it's supposed to exist in the way that it's supposed to exist. Unfortunately classical mechanics breaks down when the system is really small (such as in an atom). We'll talk about one way that it stops working after a little lesson in terminology.
Terminology
The term "potential well" refers—in effect—to the dips in the track. In the case of a roller coaster, the "well" is formed by gravity in that the deeper you go into it, the more energy you need to get out. We can see a more solid example of this in the system of the earth. Imagine that our planet is resting on a large rubber sheet, causing a depression. To get into outer space, we must climb out of the hole first which means that we need to have enough energy to get out without falling back in. Once out, we are free to shut off the engines and simply coast (which is how we got to the moon) because there is no danger of falling back into the earth's potential well.
Potential wells can be made from all sorts of things. For instance, a large chunk of positive charge (such as an atomic nucleus) creates a potential well into which negative charges, like electrons, fall (the reason they don't ever fall into the absolute center is a complex question that we won't get into here). In the same way as with gravity, for an electron to escape a nucleus' potential well, it must have at least enough energy to climb out of the hole.
The other term that we need to understand is the "wave function." We refer more to the wave functions of tiny particles than to where they are or how fast they're moving because it allows us a little more accuracy in measurements. In effect, we say that particles have a tendency to behave like waves under the right conditions. For example, electrons (which have definite mass) have a wavelength and a frequency and can even diffract (bend around obstacles) like water waves do. As a result, when an electron is in a potential well, instead of thinking of it as a ball rolling back and forth between to peaks of maximum energy (like a roller coaster), we think of it as being a wave bouncing back and forth between two walls (think of dropping a pebble in a bowl of water and watching the waves bounce around). The size of the wave function at a certain point represents the probability of the electron being found at that spot. That is, the bigger the wave function, the more likely it is to find an electron there if we choose to measure it.
Quantum Tunneling
Remembering the blue track example, imagine an atomic potential well of that shape. Perhaps there are two nuclei of differing charge (so that one is deeper, or has a greater propensity to pull an electron than does the other) close enough together to affect a single electron. We can imagine that the larger of the two nuclei could, under the right circumstances, trap the electron in the deeper well, making it impossible to overcome the hump and orbit the other, smaller nucleus. Classically, this is exactly how we'd explain it.
However, we have observed that sometimes the electron, after having been trapped in a potential well and without enough energy to get out of it, sometimes escapes. This is evidence that the electron is behaving like a wave. Imagine clapping (thus making a sound wave) in a room with closed doors. Can a person outside the room hear you? If you clap loud enough, the sound wave will hit a wall and make it vibrate a little, causing the air on the other side of the wall to vary in pressure a little. That pressure variance becomes a pressure (sound) wave that can travel to another person's ear. It's not as loud, but it's still the same sound.
So also with an electron, when it's wave function hits against a wall, it sometimes tunnels into it. If there is another potential well on the other side close enough and deep enough, the electron will be transmitted to the other side (though with a much weaker wave function). Unlike with sound, the fact that the wave function has a smaller amplitude does not indicate that the electron is any less of one. In fact, it is the same electron that was on the other side of the well. The fact that it has a smaller wave function only means that it is less likely to be there if we chose to measure it. However, that probability only applies to the exact time of measurement. In all other times, the two nuclei behave as if the electron were always with it (even though measurements may seem to indicate that it is with one particular nucleus 80% of the time).
Maybe this all sounds obscure as if it couldn't possibly matter to a normal person, but what I've just described is a covalent bond which is the kind of bond that keeps two hydrogen atoms attached to an oxygen atom in water molecules (and, consequently, the bond that makes most or all of the molecules in air stay together).
Conclusion
The take-home message of quantum tunneling is that small particles act very differently from large ones. I guess, technically that grapefruits have wavelengths too, but for reasons associated with the Uncertainty Principle, the effect that quantum mechanics has on large objects is negligible. But on very small scales, classical mechanics breaks down. Objects that we imagine to be solid become waves, Newtonian mechanics breaks down, and nothing seems to work the way we expect it. The usefulness of knowing exactly how they act on that scale is important, though, as we can see by examining its effects. Knowledge of quantum tunneling leads us to innovations such as flash memory (which the thumb drive in your pocket uses), semiconductors (a fundamental component in computers) and chemistry.